until the baby boomer generation, families and in many cases neighbourhoods were extensively interconnected networks across generations.
the boomers were largely cut off, for various reasons, which has disrupted/destroyed those normal human relationships. in their place our societies put institutions and other dislocated (and money driven/poor) mechanisms.
western societies have the resources and the means to provide flexible, adaptive and adapted care for everyone - but we choose not to.
and blame the economic and social structures we create as our excuse.
the so-called push to return to family values™ is simply a conservative knee-jerk to their self-constructed loss of power.
every family has values, of some sort. the conservatives want everyone to have their values. like i'd want to live in a family where the male gets to abuse whomever he wants, and the female has to do as she's told. and the kids have to be perfect, all the time.
so our society is changing. that's what they do. what they've always done.
no way in hell i want to live in 'an sca/disney kind of world'. [apologies to my sca friends] the dream of 'returning' to some imagined version of the past holds no excitement for me. even if it were my own imagined version. the past is done. we live now. get over it.