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MARENC Speech Notes

Mr. Ross Cameron, MP
Parliamentary Secretary to the Minister for Family and Community Services
To Open the Marriage and Relationship Educators' National Conference (MARENC)
Lincoln College, Adelaide
Friday 26 September 2003

Thank you Father Fewings for your introduction. It is a pleasure to be here this morning at this important conference.

Congratulations to the conference co-convenors for organising this three-day event. It is great to see so many people here today–people from right across the country who have a common interest in improving marriage and family relationships.

As Parliamentary Secretary responsible for Australian-Government funded marriage and family relationship services, I share this interest with you.

Strong relationships support and nurture the physical, mental, emotional, and psychological well being of every family member, especially the children.

But families don’t live in a vacuum. They exist as part of an interdependent and wider network within their own communities a network that can encompass myriad cultural, social, economic and religious factors.

Looking at changes to families

Our family policies recognise all these factors and they are underpinned by recent data.

The data reflects changes in the demographics of family make-up and the pressure on parents to find the right balance between work and family life.

In Australia, the traditional model of father, mother and two children still exists. But there are many other family types for example, single parent families, blended families, couples without children, and single people as well.

  • There is a steep fall in the proportion of women having large families, the fertility rate is down, and the population is ageing
    • One or two-children families represent around 60% of the families of women born after 1960, compared to 40% of the families of women born between 1930 and 1940.
    • Australia’s fertility rate is now 1.75 the lowest on record, and since 1976 has been below replacement rate (2.1 births per woman).
  • Relationships are less stable
    • Divorce rates have remained relatively steady at between 2.4 and 2.9 divorces per 1000 people each year.
    • However, the ratio of divorces to new marriages peaked in 1996 with one divorce for every two new marriages.
  • People are marrying later in life
    • Between the late 1970’s and 1995, the proportion of people marrying each year went down from 7.9% to 5.9% per 1000 Australians.
    • In 1971 the average marrying age for women was 21.4 years, and for men 23.8 years. In 2000, the ages increased to 28.3 years for women and 30.3 years for men.
  • The number of sole parent families is increasing
    • Just over one-fifth of families (22%) are now sole parent families increasing from 16% in 1991.
    • Just under one million children are growing up in these families of these 570,000 families, 88% are sole mother families.∑ The number of jobless families is increasing
    • In June 2001, there were 435,000 Australian families with dependent children under 25 in which no parent had a paid job.
    • Two-thirds of jobless families were sole parent families.
  • The nature of work and family balance and workforce participation is changing:
    • The proportion of the working population doing a 35 to 44-hour week fell from 42% in 1988 to 36% in 1998.
    • 40% of women worked full-time in 2000.
    • In February 2001, over 72% of women with dependent children had spent at least part of the previous 12 months in the workforce.
    • Fathers say they want to spend more time with their children with a recent study finding that 68% of fathers felt that they did not spend enough time with their children and that workforce barriers prevented them from being better fathers.

The role of government

In responding to families’ needs, the Government does have responsibilities and an important role to play in paying income support and funding family and children’s services.

There is also a clear role for governments in, for example, helping to drive reforms to workplace arrangements so that they become flexible and family friendly, and they take account of the special needs of families with young children and of people who care for older parents or disabled children.

But we have to ensure we do not engage in social engineering.

I do not agree with those who say the State should take on all the responsibility for individual and social progress. Indeed, I have argued in the past, that the agency of the state has sometimes had the reverse effect.

Everyone has a vested interest governments, communities and citizens alike in helping Australian families and communities to be strong.

The answer is not necessarily chipping in more and more government resources.

It often makes more sense to focus on better harnessing the resources we already have, rather than pursuing increased public funding to solve human problems.

Supporting families involves broad and inter-connected issues

To develop effective responses to families’ needs we must consider the broader, inter-connected, and complex social issues that impact on families and communities.

Many of you would know how the connections between crime, drug abuse, gambling and suicide have disastrous effects on family relationships.

First and foremost, the Government supports an early intervention and prevention approach.

Indeed, most experts share this view.

For example, the recently released Report on the Inquiry into Substance Abuse in Australian communities recommended that the different levels of government cooperate to ensure that early intervention and prevention programs for young people be expanded to:

  • Actively encourage and support young people to get involved in communities, families and with their peers in a way that is valued and recognised
  • Create opportunities for them to connect with adults in schools, local neighbourhoods and families, and
  • Promote skills in young people and adults for making those connections

The Government’s welfare reform initiatives, our Stronger Family and Communities Strategy, and programs like Reconnect and the Family Relationships Services Program already reflect these directions.

Building social capital through community networks

There are no easy answers as to whether, and how much, government should act in response to the changing nature of Australian families.

For its part, the Howard Government quite deliberately works with others to come up with answers including stakeholders in the business community sectors, and from parents, teachers, health professionals, child care workers, and so on.

It takes a joint effort like this to develop the kind of culture that strengthens and supports family relationships.

I go so far as to say that success depends on government remaining subordinate to the role of civil society in the task of strengthening and supporting marriage and family.
To get the settings right, we have to listen to what people like you who work at the grass roots, have to say.

This is fundamental to building social capital in communities. To a great extent, success relies on individual goodwill and community capacity and strength.

In a sense, social capital is the ‘glue’ that holds communities together and the ‘oil’ of a civil society.
Research shows that community networks provide protection against the worst effects of poverty and disadvantage. It also shows that support services are more effective when they operate in strongly networked communities.

These networks build community capacity to help themselves. Community capacity comes from the commitment, resources and skills that a community can draw on to grasp opportunities and solve local problems.

Support services for families

The Department of Family and Community Services, alone, spends around $60 billion a year on programs and services for Australian families and communities. That’s about one-third of Australian Government spending.

This includes unprecedented investments in early intervention and prevention programs, including funding for parenting education and marriage and relationship education and counselling.
Family relationships services

In 2003-04, the Government will spend $53 million on family relationship services.
This amount includes extra funding announced in the 2003-04 budget:

  • $5.1 million more for 53 men’s services funded under the Men and Family Relationships Initiative, and
  • another $1.4 million to continue Family Relationships Education services.

Family law system

While there’s always room for improvement, we are also heading in the right direction with changes to the family law system by:

  • Focussing on conflict resolution, not litigation
  • Identifying solutions which help people to move forward with their lives, and
  • Putting the interests of the children first.

Earlier this year, the Government responded to the Family Law Pathways Advisory Report which made some recommendations about helping separating families navigate the complex legal pathways in the family law system pathways which in themselves often hindered rather than helped them.

The Government’s response to the report highlights three themes:

  • Early help connecting people to information and services
  • Better outcomes for children and young people; and
  • An integrated system that meet families’ needs.

The Family Court and other government agencies are now working alongside professionals and local community organisations that deal with families in the family law system.

This cooperative approach recognises the value of involving and consulting communities to find the best on-the-ground solutions for delivering more effective and integrated services that is, we are harnessing the individual goodwill and community resources, mentioned earlier.

Policy development

Another role of government is to respond to social debate and discussion.

House of Representatives Inquiry on Shared Parenting

The House of Representatives Inquiry on Shared Parenting reflects the Government’s determination that, to the greatest extent possible, children have the benefit and love and care of both parents when a couple separates.

Among other issues, the inquiry is looking at whether the existing child support formula works for both parents in relation to their care of, and contact with their children.

Separation and sorting out custody arrangements is not easy. We need to see how we can better integrate support from all players in the system – including the Child Support Agency, Centrelink, lawyers, community services, mothers, fathers, grandparents and other family members.

In particular, the inquiry has ignited debate and brought the important role of fathers under the public spotlight.

I look forward to the inquiry’s findings, especially when it comes to how we can best equip parents to put their children’s needs first.

National Agenda for Early Childhood

The first important stage in developing the National Agenda for Early Childhood Agenda is finished, following extensive consultations across the country on what the agenda might include. To those of you who participated in these, thank you for your contributions.

In general, the feedback has been very positive and there is widespread support for the development of a National Agenda.

There is optimism that the timing is right to make some real improvements in the way governments and services respond to the needs of children and their families.
Relationship educators, like other professionals, will be able to play a key role in the three, major action areas:

  • Early child and maternal health
  • Early learning and care; and
  • Supporting child friendly communities.

During the consultations parents in particular said they wanted to see more value placed on the role of parenting within the community and more support provided to parents in that role.

The message was: we need to take more account of their needs and work out how best to meet them. At the same time, we have to recognise more, the diversity of families these days.

One of the things the National Agenda can do, for example, is sharpen the focus on fathers and on the support and encouragement they need to help them have ongoing and positive relationships with their children.

In what he called a ‘downpayment’ on the agenda, the Prime Minister announced $10 million for early childhood intervention and prevention programs to be developed under the National Agenda for Early Childhood.

Research/building the evidence

When developing new policy initiatives, particularly in the current complex and dynamic climate, Government needs to base its policies on good quality, objective evidence.

In the case of research into families, we have an ongoing research program with groups like:

  • the Australian Institute of Family Studies
  • the Social Policy Research Centre at the University of New South Wales
  • the Melbourne Institute, and
  • the SPEAR Centre.

The amount and quality of objective evidence is also being increased through other research, such as the nine-year Longitudinal Study of Australian Children and the HILDA Survey.

Those of you here today from services funded by the Department of Family and Community Services also contribute to our research base by collecting data for FaCSLink.

FaCSLink gives the department valuable information to use when we review the effectiveness and efficiency of taxpayer-funded programs. Having a strong evidence base also means we can respond better to the ever-changing needs of families.

Conclusion

I want to acknowledge the crucial role you play in strengthening family strength and well-being, both on the ground and through our interaction with your three industry representative bodies:

  • Catholic Welfare Australia
  • Family Services Australia, and
  • Relationships Australia.

It gives me great pleasure now to officially open this year’s Marriage and Relationship Educators’ National Conference.

I’m sure in going to ‘the Art of the Heart and the Heart of the Art’, you’ll have a very productive and stimulating three days.

Thank you.

_____ ENDS _____

Music:: Delia Derbyshire - Doctor Who (Original Titles Music)
Mood:: 'crappy' crappy
There are 8 comments on this entry. (Reply.)
 
posted by (anonymous) at 08:06am on 10/01/2006
(1) There is a steep fall in the proportion of women having large families:
Now, could that have anything to do with the direction in which the present economic framework is pushing men, women and families? As Australia moves towards a complete model of fee for service, which will encompass health care and education, is it just possible that having kids is getting kind of expensive?
(2) Relationships are less stable:
Like, working 50-60-70 hours a week, 12 hour shift rosters, fly-in/fly-out work patterns, trading annual holidays for more income etc is expected to help relationships?
(3) People are marrying later in life:
Ummm .. you are aware of HECS debt and the cost of housing in the main cities of Australia these days?
(4) The number of sole parent families is increasing:
See (2) above.
(5) The nature of work and family balance and workforce participation is changing:
Refer to the recent changes in industrial law and tax law. Perhaps it's a logical end-point for policies which make economic outcomes and material gain the primary goals of a society?

Just remind me again - the present economic and industrial policies were put in place by?
*pout* Mary
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posted by [personal profile] maelorin at 09:21pm on 10/01/2006
the speech was a statement of government policy back in 2003. the government is on a crusade to increase the 'fertility rate' - their 'economic modelling' hasn't factored in the fact that were not producing children like we're 'sposed to ...

kids are expensive - and increasingly 'difficult' to raise/manage/fit into lifestyle. very time consuming. large families are also hard to have. all that giving birth/having pregnancy stuff. also, 'large' families are unnecessary.

relationship stability will continue to be a problem, not only because of the government's obvious economic and social policies/agenda, but because fewer people actually grow up these days. unless and until people are expected to learnand practice things like people skills, and such-like, they're not going to bother - already a whole lot of other things they have to deal with ahead of another person's interests etc.

the marrying later is also related to the maturing later. and marriage is no indicator of stability or maturity. the more important indicator is that people are not settling down until later in life than used to be done. maturity is much harder for the poor bean-counters to assess, let alone factor into their beautiful spreadsheets.

i certainly don'tneed to be reminded of hecs or housing costs. mind you, hecs is not really relevant. you don't even see an effect until you're being paid decent(ish) money. starting salaries/wages, and living costs do bite.

sole parent families are a consequence of many factors. they really hit home in the lower socio-economic band. some choose children to supplement their meagre incomes, others end up with them ...

more affluent parents can afford nannies, etc. but that doesn't address the effects fo the breakdown of the family that had been a part of human societies for thousands of years. the invention of the "nuclear family" stripped out a lot of the 'unpaid' social and economic support structures that had maintained societies for millenia. it's more than just about a "me generation" - though that was a pretty obvious result.

remember, this speech was given long before the new laws were unveiled, let alone rammed through to us.

the social results of the economic policies of this federal government might well be obvious to us, but they don't think so. one of the reasons i posted the speech was to point out that none of this is of recent invention in liberal party economic policy.


i'm considering creating a political party ...
 
posted by (anonymous) at 06:37am on 11/01/2006
We could debate this stuff for a long time to come.

(1) Yes, these policies, including the recent industrial law changes, impending family law changes etc have been discussed within the conservative pole of politics for a long time. The main difference this time is that the conservative wing now has absolute power federally and will twist and turn the national constitution as much as they can to push the use of that power into areas traditionally considered to be the jurisdiction of the states. What is happening federally was/is predictable.
(2) Yes, relationships and marriage have as much (possibly more) to do with the maturity issue as the economic environment in which those relationships are formed. Perhaps a more accurate statement is to say that they relate to the present definition of maturity and to generational expectations (both peer expectations and parental expectations).
(3) However, I think my basic point remains. The present government is made up of a lot of un-clever people and their un-clever advisers, and they provide no evidence that they have any idea of the collateral consequences of their dominant economic policies, with respect to family life, human relationships, social interactions, social support, cultural evolution, etc.

I'm sorry if I'm sounding like an unreconstructed leftie (I'm not - I was even a Young Liberal once, briefly - a loooooong time ago.)
*double pout*, mary
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posted by [personal profile] maelorin at 02:34pm on 11/01/2006
my political sensibilities are left of centre. at least they seem to be, mostly. so i'm told/reminded.


as for cleverness - the current government have no need to be clever. they have complete dominace of parliament. no need to justify anything too clever-like. just use rhetoric to make other seem dumber.
 
You know, I would say that marrying later is more to do with our social rules about relationships than ecconomics or maturity. There was a time where it was socially unacceptable to live together without being married - it's now fine for people to form defacto relationships. Thus the incentive to marry is missing - you know that belief that in order to even have sex with your partner, let alone live with them, you need to be married.

Personally, the only reasons I see to marry my partner are legal - and even so defacto relationships have most of the same legal privelages as marriage. If I lived 50 years ago, my partner would be my husband.

I also suspect that the changing role of women has a lot to do with the changes in the number of children. A full time housewife has the time to raise 6 children, a working mother is going to cut it down to 1 or 2. I for one have no desire to be a full time housewife :-).

I also recently read (in a book titled Afluenza...) that Australians are currently wealthier than we have every been (by virtually any measurement - spending power, income, size of house, amount of stuff owned etc.). It may not be so much the case that we feel we can't afford children, or a single income family, just that our expectations of our standard of living have risen to the point where our priorities have changed. DINKs have lots of cash - why give that up for screaming babies? I recently asked my (and my partner's) parents about this, and they were both extremely poor when they had us - they just didn't question the social script - you get married, and then you have kids. Ecconomics didn't come into it for them.
 
posted by (anonymous) at 09:18am on 11/01/2006
Yes, the rules about relationships have changed. A lot was revealed to me from speaking to my mother and various uncles and aunts recently (all baby boomers).

My mother married my father when she was 21 (he was 23) and had her first child at 23. That was quite normal in the 1960s. One of my aunts did not marry until she was 28, much later than most of her peers. That aunt speaks of constant pressure from peers and parents regarding her single status ("you'll be left on the shelf", "what's wrong with you", ...) until she married (she divorced "the jerk" about 10 years later).

My mother admits that she and her friends had no problems with sex before and outside marriage, but openly living together unmarried was another thing - it wasn't done in the 60s and 70s. In order to live together, you got married. There was no religious component to marriage - that is, people didn't get married in the 60s and 70s because of personal religious strictures, although a surprisingly large proportion of them got married in a church. I was surprised when I found out that my parents had been married in a church - a family less interested in religion and the church than ours is hard to imagine.

The baby boomers seem to have married earlier than their parents and to have less children. My father has 2 surviving siblings and my mother 4 - that's why they're called the baby boomers, I suppose. In Gen X, there is only me and my sister, and all of my cousins and friends have zero, 1 or 2 siblings. It was a shock to meet a girl at my school who had 4 sisters and 2 brothers - so many!

mary
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posted by [personal profile] maelorin at 03:16pm on 11/01/2006
church weddings were 'traditional' ... 'religious' marriage celebrants outside christian churches or the large 'mainstream' religions (the 'accepted'/'acceptable' ones) is very hard to do even now. christian churches get a lot of special treatment.

the 'white wedding' mythos is still with us. many 'civil' marriages (all marriages are civil - legally there are only three components to a marriage 'ceremony', none are religious) involve brides in white dresses.

the pull of mythos, of shared cultural/social symbols is very strong.

it has been argued that one of the problems with contemporary western culture is the devaluing of it's own cultural heritage.

thanks disney inc.
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posted by [personal profile] maelorin at 02:48pm on 11/01/2006
:)

these social issues are, as you suggest, more complicated than i or mr cameron have suggested :) [i be a lawyer avoiding family law]

even if a parent were to become a full-time carer today, the social support networks that used to help them cope, and help them learn parenting skills, and so forth, are rarely available. six kids screaming for the nintendo is a hell i'd pass on. with fewer homes having backyards, there's precious few places a parent can send the kids that don't require either massive dollars or massive surveillance efforts.

changing gender roles, work patterns, socio-economic boundaries, social networks, relative income distributions, social expectations regarding purchasing patterns and priorities, and more all come into the mix.

i've been excluded from the economic largess that is "supposed" to come from my education for so long that i am turning my attention towards critiquing this expectation-assumption roundabout that i'm left to watch almost helplessly. partly trying to figure out why i'm really on the out, and partly to figure out what is really going on.

nothing like an idle mind to drive one crazy.

hence i'm contemplating what it would really take to (a) form a think tank, and/or (b) 'alternative' political party.

and when i hear the government announcing more funding to 'relationship counseling' which people contemplating divorce will be compelled to attend if they happen to have children, i begin to think about the social, economic (which is social) and political (which is social), and legal (which is social) implications.

dear goddess, i think i'm bored!

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